Im 19 female and a Virgin. I think I’m ready now but I’m scared I’ll be too small? I understand that it stretches but how does that work exactly? I can’t understand it and I’m also afraid of the pain from the stories I had heard from other girls growing up. I’m a small person I don’t know if that matters but I’m 4’8 and 130lbs and the guy im talking to is 6 foot tall and probably in 200lbs . Will there be problems? Is there anyway to prepare myself before anything happens?
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Don’t worry, darling, the current design of genitals has worked for all of human history.😆
Best thing, if you’re worried, is for you to be on top the first time so you can control the initial penetration speed, depth and angle. Afterwards, when things are more comfortable and your nervousness is down, you can let him on top. Remember to communicate- he can’t feel what you’re feeling, so keeping him in the loop will help to make the first time a better experience for you, and him.
Good luck! Have fun!
I highly recommend using lube. It helps a lot! Slides right in and feel more pleasure than pain. Let us know how that works 👍🏻 oh and one more thing. Always use a rubber lol
If you want to make sure you have the least pain for your first time, get used to something being in your vagina. Start with a sharpie and gradually move up to hairbrush handles of increasing sizes. Take it slow and easy with lots of lube and on your first time be sure to tell him that you’re a virgin. He won’t be disappointed, I promise. The greatest compliment a woman can give to a man is to choose him for her first time, make sure he’s worthy of it.
Use lube. The vagina also has the ability to expand and lengthen when aroused. So start with a lot of foreplay.
You could be tight specially if it’s your first time but like others said using lube help and yes there are vaginas of all shapes and sizes but lube helps so don’t worry
Lube and his increasingly bigger fingers. Don’t plan for penetration on first session.