Is it a big turn off for men if a woman knows her stuff in bed so good (e.g. sex positions, the way how she do it, vigour, etc.)

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  1. No. Absolutely not.

    A new relationship always has a learning phase of sorts where both try to figure out how the other works and what the other is good at doing.

    The learning is simplified a lot if you already have some ideas…

  2. It may be if he is involved with you to an emotional level and you have a lot of experience. We men tend to feel like it could lead to women judging our performance too much or that we are not that special.

  3. Nope I don’t think so
    but again if he was going to get to those actions and she makes him skip steps taking away from his experience of the sex then It will become a boring routine quick. But that’s just my own point of view.

  6. If he WAS put off, run. He’s a misogynistic sexist who doesn’t deserve a good time in the sheets! You can be a bit coy and shy if you like so it’s like he’s showing you, but no one wants a body just lying there like a dead starfish .

  8. Sounds like a question that a teenager might ask. Maybe for a teen boy sure they might feel intimidated that the girl knows her stuff, but who cares. For adults? Of course not

  9. Not at all. I personally don’t like the awkward feeling when your partner has no clue what to do

  10. Playing Devils Advocate here. Maybe some partners ( male or female ) that are not that experienced and who hook up with a very experienced partner may feel intimidated .
    It depends on the circumstances and generalisations are meaningless as each partner is unique .

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