How to get partner more comfortable with foreplay?

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1. Tell him what u like .. and how u like it done .. he also has 2 with u .. that way your both improving xx

2. Just hang out in bed. Chat, laugh, touch each other lightly, explore each other’s bodies with your hands and mouth.

   No expectations. Just hanging out together and enjoying each other. Ask if he’s willing to try and go down on you, or finger you, etc etc. If he’s inexperienced, help direct him in the right direction, show him your clit and your other spots you like being touched.

   Gently play with his cock. Just enjoy touching it and seeing what spots make him react.

   Do this several times and he will start getting more and more comfortable with you. He might just be shy and worried about doing the wrong thing!

3. He is probably uncertain, or inexperienced, or carries self doubt. So, YOU need to be confident, and specific with what you want, and show him exactly how you want it, how you like it.

   Example….Have “sexy pizza night”, where you invite him over to make pizzas with you for dinner. Explain to him that you want to be teased and that you won’t be wearing much (or anything at all). As you’re making the pizzas, ask him to touch you, and guide him about how to do that, where to touch, how soft or firm, etc. Then…..explain that the dessert on the menu this evening will be, YOU, and give him a nice lesson on your anatomy, telling him where to kiss, where to lick, what to do with his hands. Tell him you want a nice juicy orgasm for dessert, then the rest of the night, it’s going to be music, licking his popsicle, and lots of fun juicy sex.

4. If it’s lack of confidence or inexperience, tell him what you like or tell him what to do. And when he does something good, mention it.

   If it’s cause he doesn’t enjoy/care about foreplay, tell him how important it is for you.