Just remembered a time where I was having sex with my ex, we finished up, I didnt cum but he did. I stood up to get dressed, when suddenly I gushed liquid everywhere, all over the floor. I think I pissed myself but it didnt really feel like anything. I was 16 then.
Another time with a different ex, I was 20 or so. We fucked in spooning position and it felt really good, next thing i know im soaking the bed. It wasnt an orgasm though. I remember I couldnt stop it from coming out and it was so much. I went to pee after and even more came out so idk.
Was this squirting? Is squirting just losing control of the bladder? AKA Pissing yourself?
I guess it felt exciting but not exactly “Good” and certainly not orgasmic.
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How long ago was this?? Squirting doesn’t always coincide with an orgasm. I’ve heard the buildup is a similar feeling to the pressure when you are holding your pee
Squirting is not the same as an orgasm, but it does feel like another kind of orgasmic release. Orgasm causes the pelvic muscles to contract over and over and has an overall sense of completion to it. Squirting is an uncontrolled release of fluid that is essentially pee and a buildup of fluid from glands just inside the vagina around where the g spot is. It has a feeling of pressure release but not the completion feeling of a true orgasm.
For me, squirting happens during intercourse if the glands/g spot area is being stimulated by repetitive thrusting. But, all bodies are different! That may not be the case for all women. The first time it happened was during sex after a lot of nipple stimulation and I was just as confused as you are.
Basically, squirting is pee and glands fluid, it’s not a true orgasm but it does feel like a sometimes powerful release of sexual tension.
ALSO, sex can have a sort of numbing effect on the urethra and pelvic floor muscles where they have a hard time holding pee in. Orgasming so hard that pee just sort of falls out after without being pushed out is definitely something that happens. It’s all normal and good, because sex is normal and good, just with some silly side effects sometimes.
About the first time – I’m just wondering if it might’ve been your partners cum leaking out of you?