Can you please help me curate the perfect first message?
So last week my brothers fiancés family were in town and I met them for the first time. I hooked up (everything but sex) with her cousin a couple of times and the last time we hooked up he was saying that we should keep in touch on snap or WhatsApp before we see each other again (which will be in the summer for the wedding). We didn’t end up getting each other on snap or WhatsApp though we just have each other on Instagram. This was last Friday. I really wanna message him on insta but I don’t want to sound weird or too keen. What should I say? Thank you!
Update: I messaged and we conversed a few messages and the last thing I asked him was what he does then replied to something he said and it’s been 22 hours and he hasn’t replied even though I know he’s been online. Is this really bad?
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He doesn’t want to hear from you.
We’re no strangers to love,
You know the rules and so do I,
A full commitment’s what I’m thinking of
No need to overthink it, just say hello.
Send your info and see what happens.
https://youtu.be/UBYnT8JY7sE
Just say Hello.
if he is interested , anything you’ll send is gonna to work
Even terms like hooking up are losing their meaning…
We guys are simple just send a hey what’s up or something. If hes still interested he will respond
Depends on what you want from him. Another hook up or a date to see where it goes.
It doesn’t have to be perfect, just contact him and say hi. If he’s interested, it’ll be perfect enough.
Just a playful, “Hey, remember me?”
“Remember how I said I was on the pill…”
Followed up by
“Well I was. Just wanted to make sure I had your full attention. ;)”
Start with a tasteful pic of your splayed vagina.
I forgot to tell you I have AIDS, and I’ve had better. Wanna hang out?
“Hey, I had fun, and you seem nice. I’d like to see you again before the summer. What would you like to do?”
If he flakes, take the L , & move on.
With the knowledge that obviously guys find you attractive.
‘what are we?’
So… what to see my boobs?