How upset do you get when we don’t notice a new hair cut, eye brow trim etc?

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1. Personally I don’t care. I probably wouldn’t notice if it were reversed and I don’t expect someone else to notice. Unless it’s a major change like cutting off major length or drastically changing color

2. Unless it’s a super obvious change (like dying my hair a different color, or going from super long hair to like, a pixie cut) I literally don’t care. Unless I live with you and we have been together for a while (like a year or more). Then I care (unless it’s just a trim or plucked eyebrows. Don’t care about that)

3. Unless I do something drastic (which I never do), I don’t expect anyone to notice a haircut, let alone me getting my eyebrows done.

4. 0%. I did it for me and if ppl don’t notice, that’s fine as long as they don’t tell me I look like shit.

5. It’s nice (and makes me feel seen and pretty) when my husband notices but I don’t get hurt or upset if he doesn’t. Some people are good with minute details like that and some people aren’t. I also sometimes don’t notice when he changes his hair or beard unless it’s super drastic, so I feel like it wouldn’t be fair for me to be upset at him for doing the same thing.

6. I’m so used to it by now, I don’t get upset anymore. I used to get a little offended as a teenager. It felt like either the change was so bad they don’t want to comment on it, or they just weren’t paying attention to me at all. But nowadays I know my boyfriend just honestly doesn’t notice or see a difference, no matter how much he looks at me. And I’ve realized some people just don’t pay attention to that stuff at all, and it’s completely fine.

7. I don’t care, all I do is trim my bangs once in the 3 months but I’ll grow the rest till it reaches the ground, so I’m not likely getting a new haircut.

8. Like others have said, unless it’s drastic, don’t care. I usually share when I’m going and, if I want an opinion, I’ll ask.

   But, I usually do those things for myself or as maintenance.

9. People have more important things to think about than my haircut. It’s nice when it gets noticed, but I don’t really care if it goes under the radar.

10. Unless it’s a major hair change, like colour or style, I couldn’t care less. I do that stuff for me, so others noticing or not doesn’t bother me.
    But something I recently realised gave me a little tingle was when he noticed little things like nails.

11. Not at all, I don’t mind whether people notice/comment on it or not.

12. Not very. My usual look is pretty…routine.

    I did get upset when my SO didn’t notice I started dying my hair red again, but he did note that the photo in his wallet, is from when I dyed my hair so. *shrugs*