Ass play for men

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1. My wife will not let me touch her ass at all. But she does not mind putting stuff in my ass. And I love it. I can have multiple orgasms from her using a vibrator or dildo on me. I would start with a beginners butt plug kit and work your way up to a vibrator or dildo. Lots and lots of lube. Learn where the prostate is because that is where the pleasure is. Have fun and get used to a lot more cum!

2. You could start with a gloved hand, pinky first if you’re comfortable.

   Otherwise a small plug or small dildo might be another option if you’re unwilling to use your fingers.

   You don’t have to go whole hog right off the bag. You can start with a gentle caress around the anus and only finger tips to begin with. You have to go to a pace that is not only comfortable for him, but you as well.

   Check in on each other. I love ass play because seeing how pleasured he is by it really get me going. I personally think everyone should try it! Have fun

3. I’m going to assume, forgive me, that as anal play isn’t something you have considered or enjoy yourself, that’s using fingers on him wouldn’t be something you would enjoy.

   In that case, I’d invest in a prostate massager or a set of beginner butt plugs. Ask your husband if he has explored this side of him himself. Many men do and have. Lube is key, and patience in this case is a virtue. Take it as slow as needs be.

   Most importantly, only do what you’re comfortable with. Don’t be pressured into doing something you don’t want to do.

4. Make sure you’ve both recently showered and washed all the things. Clean hands and clean ass ✨ If you’ve never tried anything like it before, start with external stimulation, just stroking with a lubed finger while giving head. Pairing new sensations with ones that are already pleasurable can help your brain process ☺️ Just do slow external stimulation for the first time, eventually you can move up to fingering. Work your way up, adding one finger each time, and once you can easily do three, you can probably move on to a dildo. Again GO SLOW and use LOTS of lube. I recommend medical grade nitrile gloves and using condoms on toys for easy clean up 💜 best of luck and have fun!

5. When he’s on top of you reach down to his ass and rub your finger, especially when he’s about to cum.

6. Find his prostate (Google is your friend) and play with it.

7. Start eating ass

8. Oh oh I wrote a [how-to](https://www.reddit.com/r/eroticliterature/comments/z34no1/advanced_blowjob_howto_mf_oral_rimming_anal/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=iossmf) for this!