How do I open up to my barber?

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1. Find common ground. You have to have a subject that both of you want to talk about.

2. Might have to do with their age?

   If your dad and barber are closer in age… they’re likely gonna see each other more as peers and relate to each other more.

3. Ask him questions about himself and his interests. I look forward to going to my barber every o her week, we’re friend and enjoy talking to each other. He told me recently how as the barber he’s used to being the one to do most of the question asking, but that he’s always appreciated that I ask him things

4. Why not ask your dad about your barber? He’s been having conversations with him more than you have, so he will know him much better

   Also don’t push yourself to be more conversational with your barber. If you don’t connect with him, there’s nothing wrong with that. No one gets along with 100% of the people they meet

5. I never figured it out and hate small talk.

   I bought a set of clippers and got my wife to cut my hair instead. I actually like talking to her.

6. Ok.

   The better you get at talking to home the worse your hair will be.

   That said.

   Ask if he remembers first cutting your dads hair. Listen carefully and there will be a question about it that you’ll wanna know. Rinse and repeat friend! Question, listen question listen question listen question listen answer question listening question listen

7. start calling him mario and use hand gestures a lot. he’ll warm right up to you

8. My Barber is done with me in 7 minutes, so there’s no time to spark up a conversation really. 🙂

9. Open questions-how you doing, what are you driving, etc. People love talking about themselves without even realizing it