Me (21f) and my boyfriend (20m) after dating for about a year decided we would move in together at the beginning of next year. But due to work we have to spend 2 and a half months in long distance before moving in which we did, we still have one month left of long distance but lately he has been acting very distant and not as loving as before (texting less and not showing as much interest) When I brought this up to him he said that he was worried about the move in and was wondering if we had made the right decision and that he is enjoying being alone he said he still loves me all the same and would still like to try and move in but is nervous. I think this is very understandable it’s a big change and all change is scary he is also very tired from his new job and that could be the reason for being more distant, however this makes me feel very anxious and I can’t help but wonder if it’s just a little overthinking on his part or if he is losing feelings. I know there’s not much to do but be patient keep in contact and see what happens but as someone whit a lot of anxiety it’s not super easy I’ve been trying to keep myself busy and doing things to better myself as a person while we are a part but there’s only so much I can do before I start overthinking things So I guess any advice or kind words would be appreciated.

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