She always feels bad whenever I call her out whenever she says something that is just plain bleak or whenever she gives up. I always motivate her to keep going and to keep trying to not give up at finding a job. There was a point when she said that I always disagreed with whatever she says but that was because the things she says I disagree with are things that are always self-defeating or her reasoning out to just stay in her comfort zone forever. Whenever she would say something that is self-deprecating or thinking the world is entirely against her, I would go against that too. I asked her if she wanted me to lie to her face about saying it’s okay to do the harmful things she does to herself and she said “well you wouldn’t do it”. I’m not sure what to do anymore. Please help.
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Has she been evaluated by a medical professional or received a clinical diagnosis of depression?