What do you think about people saying “it’s none of your business” when people find others they know cheating on their spouse?

5 comments

1. People have different perspectives on what third parties should do, if anything.

   I think cheaters deserve to get busted so I don’t share the sentiment.

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3. I don’t want to be around them. Depending on how close we are to the couple, I would find them untrustworthy.

4. Honestly? Makes me look at them in the same light as the cheaters. If you’re ok with turning a blind eye to it then that speaks volumes to your own character. I wouldn’t associate with them anymore. Those definitely aren’t the type of people you want in your life because if the tables turn and you’re on the receiving end, then to them it doesn’t matter because “it’s not their business.”

5. Very much depends on context. I can think of several valid reasons why people would hold this council, this ain’t one of them.

   Generally the cheater should be busted. The people who cover for them I respect a lot less.