I (24M) have been with my partner (24F) for quite some time now. 8 years to be exact. We have sex pretty often and we both enjoy it. I take pride in how great my foreplay skills are, especially my oral. I do great at reading her body and giving her what she wants. Often times we both orgasm simultaneously.
The thing is, after sex, I feel very drained like I’m tired, lethargic, and emotionally disoriented. The days or even weeks following, my entire flow is chopped, she is moody and we seem to have more problems. I go through this stage where I just don’t want to be around her or give her any more of my sex.
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Does anyone else experience this? WHAT IS HAPPENING?
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Make sure you are eating good and staying hydrated. Getting good healthy sleep and a little exercise wouldn’t hurt. The better you take care of yourself the better you can perform and the more you will enjoy it.
Do you feel the same after mastrubation? What about exercise? Honestly it seems strange to continue with days. Everyone can get tired but to last so long it isn’t just the sex. Think about your nutrition, movement and general health
It might be time for both of you to learn about and try Karezza.
Regarding your symptoms, buy the book ‘Cupid’s poisoned arrow’, it will explain what is going on and what to do about it.
It has happened to me once so far only happened to me when I felt they weren’t worth my time and effort,it was my own ego acting up in my case and I almost threw up and was suicidal it was a feeling of losing something. But I eventually got over it and tried the same person to prove to myself I’m not better than the person and I’m overreacting. The whole thing helped fix my ego a bit.