So I met this girl. We started talking online two months ago and then decided to catch up while she was back in town for holidays. I met her few days back and we talked like for half an hour. It was just a normal talk like friends have and it was good. It didn’t felt like we both were getting bored or something like that. But now that she had left, I feel like we aren’t talking that much online like we used to. Somewhere I feel like I’m getting ignored. Idk what happened but it’s really irritating. So what should I do? Should I ask her what’s wrong or just wait?
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Maybe she is ignoring you, sometimes, we go through difficult moment and we chose not to involve anyone. Or probably, the way you treat her want she visited you. First impression matter to most ladies. If you treat her well, you don’t have anything to worry about, she’ll get back soon.
Usually women start to pull away when one or both of these things are true:
1) You’re over pursuing. You’re the one initiating conversations, the one asking questions and texting more than she is.
2) If you’re not exclusive, it’s almost certain that you’re not the only guy she’s chatting with.
The best chance of recovery is to just leave her be. When she notices your absence and her interest for you starts to grow again, she’ll reach back out again.