My bf has anxiety, so he told me “I don’t like to think about happy or bad thoughts because they both make me anxious, so i just think of random sex, like something I watched in porn. Sometimes I think about cuddling and kissing, when that happens I think about me doing it with you.” Do you men find that relatable?
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These days the word anxiety is used a lot in a medically incorrect way implying a disroder instead of the common temporary condition of the mind(I myself am guilty of that). So does he suffer from anxiety disorder or is he anxious about the idea of romance? The two are very different and while a disorder might explain such strange approach to thoughts if he isn’t medically diagnosed chances are he is just not dealing with stress in a healthy way. I’m a man and can’t relate but honestly I have never been an anxious person so my personal experience isn’t very valuable in this situation.