So me and my ex broke up in Feb 22 (she ended things but it was coming and just about who pulled the trigger tbh).
We’d been together for 3.5 years and were all of each others firsts, in love etc so obviously it hit me hard for the first couple of months. It was better for the next couple of months in summer and then I had exams in Oct and Nov which really took my mind off things.
But now it’s hitting be hard again and idk why. I just can’t seem to get over her and how things ended. We haven’t spoken at all since things ended and idk if we ever will (things didn’t end badly, but her religious parents found out and made her split with me. That kind of changed her). She also just ended things via text after blanking me for a few hours after a petty argument if that makes any difference (maybe no closure idk?)
I guess I just don’t understand why this is hitting me hard now and has come back. Will it always come and go?
Anybody else have a similar experience because I genuinely don’t think I’ll get over it properly. It’s been near enough a year.
TL;DR: my ex broke up with me 1 year ago via text after a 3.5 year relationship and I still can’t get over it. How can I get over it and stop feeling down? I thought I was fine
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Ya know the holidays are hard for people for a reason. Perhaps you are missing the Christmas’s you had together. This is the first one without her for several years. Try to surround yourself with loved ones and keep busy.
Perhaps you could start a tradition of your own that will only belong to you.