I (F20) started seeing this guy (M26) a month ago. He and I have been on many dates, kissed, had sex, and I slept over once. Its been nice to have someone to see and go do things with.
My issue is that I always, and I mean ALWAYS, feel like I don’t feel enough or I’m for ing something when I start dating. I don’t know why this is. But every last relationship started like this. I will be into a guy, find him cute, but idk why I also get this horribly anxious feeling in my mind.
I don’t like it and it’s a horrible pattern that I’d like to break. Is this some sort of attachment issue?
Also I don’t know what a healthy or stable romantic relationship or feelings are of how fast or slow they progress. I just feel lost. I don’t want to ruin this. He’s a sweet guy and put together and I just could feel me falling in love, whatever that mean.
Anyone been here? Send help!
Tldr; why does my mind start to doubt all my romantic feelings?
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What’s your relationship with your parents like?