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32 M here. My 30 F wife and I met through a matrimonial site almost 2.5 years ago. We bonded pretty well and knew there was an instant connection. We got married 2 years back. I am a very emotional guy and hence initially it was very difficult for me to perform without knowing her properly. Post 1 month of our marriage I had to leave for another country for job and we stayed apart for 3 months. When she came to live with me it was all good except in bed. It is mediocre for her. I love it completely and she says she does too but I sense it is not what she deserves. Everything is going very good (touchwood) between us and we care for each other, respect each other and love each other. Being at a mature age we both have our goals (professional and personal) set and are moving towards them. For me sexual satisfaction is comparatively a smaller part of my life. I do enjoy it but not a sex freak. Wife on the other hand enjoys it more. I am unable to keep up with her frequencies and though she doesn’t complaint I feel I am obliged to make her happy. We discussed about it and we are unsure of what we should do.I want her to be happy.
She is a sweet and loving lady but I would call her a sex freak.
She has had a fair share of partners before marriage as well.
I love her completely and what to make her happy and give her what she deserves.
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Keep communicating with one another. Be open and honest. Talking about it is key.