i keep my hips elevated so that my penis isn’t jamming against the mattress, but this is the only way that feels comfortable for me to jerk. i develop a rhythm between my hand and thrusting my hips, and it’s the only way i can get off. i have to at least start off with this technique to be able to finish. i’m worried that something may be wrong with me, should i see a urologist?
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I used to cum by waggling my dick from side to side until I came.
Eventually I learned how most people do it, and started to do that but it doesn’t mean that I came super easily from that. Eventually I transitioned to being able to cum like most people do.
Same way, I couldn’t cum standing up until I tried practicing cumming standing up and now I can do it whenever I want.
Mostly it comes down to what you are doing so if you want to cum differently then try doing that, and keep trying until you get there. Your body adapts and you can find a way.
I wouldn’t freak out. Try cutting out masturbation for about a few days to a week before trying something new. Giving time to reset may make transitioning and experimenting easier
I doubt anything is wrong, you just get used to doing it a particular way. Keep trying other things and you’ll gradually figure out what else works for you. Or keep doing it like that, it’s fine.