A friend of mine just came by for the new year and stayed with me and my boyfriend. I had been excited for him to come all week and when he got here he told me he had been excited all week as well. He drove a little over three hours to get here.
I’ve always had a thing for him, and have recently found myself in an open relationship with my boyfriend [24M]. My bf has had many partners since opening the relationship and I haven’t bothered since dating apps are a nightmare. I figured I’d wait until a hookup happened naturally.
My friend asked how our relationship was and if it was still open. I told him it was and he told me he hasn’t been seeing anybody. And then when we were talking about what we missed doing that we wish to do in the new year, he said he wanted to go on a nice date with someone.
I could not stop thinking about how badly I wanted to fuck him. He’s leaving to hike the Appalachian trail in April, I want to make a trip to his place before then and straight up ask him if he’d want to fuck before he leaves for the rest of the year. But I don’t know if that’s the way I should go about it, I’ve never “hooked up” with anyone before I’ve only been with my boyfriend. I also don’t know if I’m reading too much into our conversation. Would appreciate some advice.
TLDR; The whole time my friend was here I was fantasizing about fucking him, how do I ask him if he’s down?
EDIT: We haven’t even kissed so even just some advice on how to initiate something physical would be great.
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He is clearly interested. Ask him to go on a date with you and go from there.