Exactly what the title says. My spouse (27NB and me 34M) has always been very interested in pegging. Neither of us have ever actually tried it but it is definitely a fantasy of theirs. I’m definitely open to the idea and would love to be able to provide that for them….however I happen to have the world’s tiniest butt and in general the small bits of anal play we have engaged in on my part have not been very comfortable.
So I am looking for suggestions on both products and how to make it enjoyable. My spouse is extra small as a person. Do they have extra teeny tiny strap on dildos? Both the size of the harness and the size of the appendage? Whenever I try to look things up all I find are obscenely large comically aggressive products.
We already have a number of lubes but is there a better option for a guy who’s never really experimented in that department on himself? Techniques? How to’s? Guides on how to make butt stuff enjoyable? Poppers?
Advice greatly appreciated
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I love introducing people to ass fucking!
Take a hot shower so you feel clean and relaxed. Have them rim you, fuck your ass with a finger and plenty of lube, maybe 2 fingers after a while, suck your dick at the same time or you stroke your dick at the same time, and just take your sweeeet time! they can try to put their finger in your ass all the way and press towards the front of your body (this will press on the prostate which generally feels great for people with prostates), like a come hither motion, touch your dick, and see how you feel. Talk, giggle, and smile at each other. It’ll be much easier for them to learn your body with their hand than a dildo, and it might be easier for you to relax into it and feel what sensations you like and what sensations are more challenging.
They do make small dildos (look up the brand strap on me, there’s a small bendy one I use a lot for pegging) and small harnesses. Get a silicone one so you can boil it clean. try looking at quality online sex shops like Babeland. Visit a local high quality sex shop and ask the staff, they will definitely help you!
Start at http://peggingparadise.com
I’m sure it’s pretty easy if your on the right end of the peg.