For example, last week my mind wandered for a bit and I remembered I had sausage rolls in the fridge and damn, I out loud said “mmm sausage rolls” and NEEDED to have one. Thankfully my partner is understanding (and also has adhd) so we paused, had sausage rolls, then continued :’) we laugh about it almost daily and I don’t think we’ll look at a sausage roll now and not remember that.
Do you get distracted during sex?
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oh I get SOOO distracted
Sex is something I’m actually able to hyperfocus on. It gives me the best happy chemicals so it’s easy to focus on because there’s nothing I’d rather be doing
For me it is all over the board. So intensely in the experience and distracted enough to let the tiniest bit of flacid ruin my boner.
It can be kind of boring. He doesn’t like music or sound on during, and he tries but the foreplay is mid. I feel like I tend to need multiple sources of sensory stimulation and sex usually is just the one sense, I feel his penis inside. It can be boring.
Addictive. It’s like, the best possible source of dopamine for me, and I’m on adderall.
Also, I start hallucinating that I’m somewhere else. That’s almost definitely not an ADHD thing though.