How do you politely tell your SO that you are becoming unnatracted to her because she is becoming annoying?

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  7. If you are married, I suggest you do counseling to discuss your issues. If it’s a girlfriend, I suggest you get a new one…

  8. Don’t say to her you’re becoming unnatracted.
    You can tell her you feel weird because of her attitude, because it is not how you used to feel before.
    Then talk about what’s bothering you but remember: A relationship is based on two people around a bond, so most of the time you both have to settle some kind of midterm to make it work. Don’t take things that doesn’t feel right to you, but also sometimes you’ll notice that you are doing the same thing or that is just not that annoying.

  9. “honey I love you, but goddamn are you starting to annoying the fucking shit out of me”

  10. Don’t use the word ‘annoying’ … don’t generalize actions under one big label of ‘annoying’, rather bring them up individually and address each with facts and ‘I centered’ statements about what she is doing / not doing, the specific effect they are having on you, and specifically what you do want from her instead

  13. Step 1: You inquire about the change you have noticed to understand whats going on

    Step 2: assess with this new information if betterment is likely

    Step 3: if change for the better is unlikely to happen you tell her that the way things have changed you don’t think this is how you want your relationship to be and end it.

    Optional: Jump straight to step 3 – Straight up end it. (I would always recommend doing some due diligence first)

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