what do you do when your relationship starts becoming boring?

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1. Focus on all the other things I do, like work, hobbies, and my friends. It’s a trap to expect your SO to be your source of entertainment

2. Get married, have a kid, then seal the deal of a dead bedroom. Spend the rest of your life miserable until you die.

3. Means you could be spending too much time together.

   Space is good to reset and appreciate the things you get immune to. There is literally endless thing to do as a couple not just eat and have sex

4. Spend a bit of time figuring out if I am making it boring

5. Why not take the advice of the many 18-25yr old female passengers I have, when their friend says anything remotely negative about their relationship and accept that it’s obviously over, you could do so much better, fuck that guy, live your truth 💯

6. Find a unicorn

7. Accept that we crave routine because we want security. But we want exciment by doing the same thing because it is safe. So accept that a little boredom is normal. however, you can both still do new things. Or you yourself can pick a new hobby, a new job, etc.

8. Take half the blame for it and fucking do something about it

   Emphasis on the fucking

9. Stick with it. Even Ferraris get boring after 3 weeks

10. Binge on cocaine and hookers.

11. My boyfriend and I just celebrated our 3 years of relatioship. After honeymoon phase, it will get boring. However, we find ways to be creative with our dating. We list things that we wanted to try, preferably things we both haven’t tried. We wanted to have a lot of first time experience together. I think that’s the reason why I’m still very excited to see my boyfriend after so many years.