Men of Reddit, What do you find most attractive in a woman?

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1. Physically? Her eyes

   Mentally? Her confidence

2. Her being genuinely nice, when they show massive interest and laughter about something.

   Physically: Eyes and hair, sizes don’t matter, if you have the first ones, I’ll consider everything an extra, and what I come to love I’ll make sure you get confident on it.

3. Probably her style and aesthetic but in terms of physical traits definitely her eyes (or lips when I want to kiss them I guess).

4. For me, it’s the eyes, smile, and lips. Nice body doesn’t hurt.

   But after getting to know them, it’s being able to hold a conversation, having a sense of humor, being warm, caring, and sincere , and having a good personality. And being confident. In the end, happiness is very impt and if the other person makes you happy, that can be attractive. But this is just me. LOL

5. Their feminine body movements.

6. Physically face and hips to abdomen ratio. Mentally confidence.

7. Depends on the woman.

8. Curves and ability to flirt. Hard to find someone who is self aware and socially skilled enough to flirt well.

9. Genuine Sense of humor

10. Having strong interests. I love when people are able to talk to me about things they like for a long time because usually it shows that they are inquisitive and thoughtful.

11. Being able to communicate effectively.

12. Eyes, smile

13. Internally? Her kind heart and beautiful personality

    Physically? Pretty face and ok body

14. Her Body

    Feminine,Friendly,Kind

    Her being submissive and respectful towards me

15. Trust and warmth. Nothing gets me going like a lady who is honest and kind, who I can also be comfortable with.

16. There isn’t one answer to this question since every guy has different preferences. However, some common things that are often mentioned include a woman’s smile, eyes, and personality.

17. I find the most attractive thing about a woman is the boobies. – Zap Branigan

18. Eyes. Beautiful eyes can be hypnotic. However she needs to be genuine and kind. If she is an entitled snot, I’m immediately done.

19. Physically: eyes, lips, smile
    Mentally: being a good person, funny

20. A woman who has genuine interest in you. A woman who’s willing to take time out of her day for you to be happy. A woman who you can tell anything to.

21. The simplest way to put it:

    Just look like the girls in the drawings we made in Kindergarten.

22. If she talks to me? Not the most interesting or funny and I damn sure don’t have the looks soo looking past all that means Shes a real one

23. Someone who’s not afraid to take charge

24. A great ass

25. What is “confidence” to a man?

26. Honestly: wit.

    A sense of humor and confidence that comes from intelligence. Flirting with someone with wit is an absolute pleasure, and can be absolutely mesmerizing.

27. I like a strong neck good for choking and she needs to be a freak in bed. (Presumably imma get downvoted to shit for being honest…again🤷🏽‍♂️)

28. Physically nice figure pretty face

    Mentally Someone who is genuine warm friendly feminine and definitely has to have a sense of humour .

29. How she pulls herself off and confidence. As relationship grows ability to trust each other and being comfortable with each other. Also being nice helps

30. Honest answer -Big boobs

    Political answer – Eyes , personality blah blah ….

31. Gonna go with sense of humor and a nice smile at the top of the list.

    Narrowly above big ass titties.

32. Effort

33. Physically, a feminine frame.

    Mentally, intelligence.

34. Being multilingual.

35. At this point in my life, any woman who can be reasoned with can clap these cheeks.

36. A big big big personality

37. If the girl has attitude or sass it shows confidence indirectly and subconsciously we dig that even though it’s f**kin annoying

38. Eyes and Smile is the first thing I notice.

39. When a shy woman locks her eyes with mine, I am in her power.

40. Most attractive? Ludicrous question.

    Honestly, some honesty and affection gets me over the moon. If we talk physically, it doesn’t really matter at the end, it does at the start but you eventually come to like a person regardless of how she looks. But yeah, I do have my ideals there.

41. Being attracted to me and up front about it.

42. Patience, kindness, a deep sense of questioning, questioning about me or the universe. Thoughtfulness is so attractive. Women that speak gently, oh man.

43. Slutty behavior reserved for me only.

44. I’m gonna mix what Yuji and Megumi want. Tall and unshakeable personality

45. Loyalty, exclusivity, innocence and comfort. Coming home from a long day at work, the last thing I need is her starting arguments. She needs to be my peace.