What’s the one thing you’ve been waiting for a suitor to do?

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1. To close the drawers he opens bc he never does it and I have no idea why. Otherwise, it’s all good.

2. Flowers and chocolate without it having to be a holiday

3. a man who asks questions, is genuinely curious and wants to get to know me, asks the deep questions, wants to get to the depths of my soul, breaks down walls and barriers. an authentic and genuine understanding of who i am. an appreciation of me, the beauty and flaws. everything.

4. Planning a date without asking, and showing up with a small gift

5. Someone who actually puts in the effort that I do to understand others and why they are the way they are. Genuinely trying to understand someone’s childhood and past and how it all affects their personality, communication, habits, etc. Learning what my traumas are and making sure not to do anything to trigger them. I do it so much for others and just would be nice to receive that in return.

6. Someone to sit by my hospital bed and keep me company if I’m sick or injured.

7. showing consistency of effort, showing pure intentions, and gentleness

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9. Actions matching words.

   Consistency

   Good communication.

10. Buying me a gift of any kind that isn’t for birthdays or something, good quality head rubs.

11. to act genuinely interested in feminist issues, and to be passionate about it.