I 23 M have feelings for my friends cousin 23 F and I don’t know if it’s reciprocated or if they see it as a brother/sister type relationship. I have been trying to figure this out forever but I’m an extremely cautious over-thinker. The only time I see her is when she hangs out with me and my friend. I just don’t want to make things weird between all of us.
Behavioral Things I’ve Noticed:
1) Mirroring – Whenever we hangout I noticed she copies a lot of things I do. When I notice it I will change up what I’m doing to make sure sometimes. Most of the time she’ll copy those actions too. So it’s not just coincidence. Sometimes she’ll copy me intentionally to tease me, but I catch on to that pretty fast because she’ll be staring at me when doing it. It always gets a smile out of me.
2) She knows I jump a little when I get caught off guard so she’ll sneak up behind me and poke me to get a reaction. This happens a lot but I never get used to it(I find it funny too).
3) We can talk forever about things and just lose track of time.
I can give quite a few specific examples, but I don’t want to make this post too long.
Pls let me know if I’m overthinking this too much, or if there could be something. I’m horrible with taking hints so I have no idea here. If giving more specific examples help, just message me.
2 comments
It seams like you get along really well and she enjoys being around you. The second example is pretty flirty so that’s a sign she’s into you. Maybe next time you are around her ask to hang out one on one? Then go from there.
Life’s too short to not fuck on somebody’s cousin