My husband and I (M27 and F25) have a great sex life and the threesome thing has been discussed in great detail with a lot of anticipation.
Kids will be at grandparents and I’m cleaning my house trying to not jump out of my skin 😂
But where do you actually start in the moment?? Movie and wine? I don’t even consider myself bisexual (in a romantic sense), and I’ve never been with a woman or kissed a woman. I’m so afraid I’m going to come across as awkward even though I’m super excited. 😅 I’m looking forward more to watching and worshipping than receiving, if I’m honest!
Looking for suggestions to calm myself down and not be a fucking lame-o 😆 wish me luck!
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advice from a no experience-er: just own it. Be nervous! Laugh about it! take it slow…. You’re all in the same boat. Enjoy it…
It is a great experience. Just go with it. Don’t forget to lead and ask. Try to make sure everyone is feeling involved. My wife and I had a threesome once and it was the best three hours of our lives.
It might not work out very well. Threesomes are asking for trouble. Someone might easily end up hurt
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Please tell me you have read up on this first
Good luck! I’m a man, was with 2 hot women in one threesome years ago and I didn’t enjoy it at all lol. Your husband is probably very nervous and excited too, so just go with it and I hope there’s no jealousy after. In my case, none of us knew each other, so all ended fine….but I hear jealousy can be a thing if a couple do it with a 3rd wheel as such. Just be wary! Good luck and have a great time.
My wife and I have had several threesomes and all were pretty good experiences. If you don’t know the 3rd already, I suggest hanging out a bit before moving on to the sexy stuff, gives everyone a chance to feel a bit more comfortable. Also, don’t worry about being lame lol. Embrace the goofiness a bit and have fun, don’t try to be too serious. You’ll trip over each other a bit, get twisted up in ways it’s awkward to get out of, and all that kind of stuff so just take it in good fun.
Communication ahead of time. What do people want to happen and what is off limits. Know that beforehand so there nothing in the moment what makes someone uncomfortable.
Please tell me how u r fine with another woman touching ur husband or ur husband touching her? So curious my bf kept asking to do this but im so selfish conscious i feel like he only wants to cause he doesnt like me anymore or doesn’t want to touch/ look at me. Worried he will prefer her 🙁