My ex has texted me that he wants to reconcile and asks for forgiveness. I forgive him for hurting me for talking to someone i was uncomfortable with, the reason for our breakup. When he texted me, i tell him i am talking to someone, but we have been drifting apart. He then starts acting very jealous, asking if the guy i’m talking to is “bigger” than him or more attractive, and saying he’s very hurt to find that out because he never stopped loving me. I am confused if i should entertain these questions I been answering, or if these questions are normal. He has also slept with that person I was uncomfortable with so I feel like I could never ask these questions to him and the fact that he is, is crazy to me.
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He’s toxic. Run.
Your ex is playing games with you. He’s already slept with someone else & now he’s grilling you about your tlaking to someone else? Naw, he’s just trying to put you back on your heels to gain the upper hand should you get back together again (because he slept with the person who made you uncomfortable, he’s going to way prioritize HIS ‘hurt” to get you to not focus on his own actions).
Why are you even talking to him? If you want to get back together, get back together. If you don’t, stop the drama
Block. Block. Block. Block. Block. And then don’t look back.
He’s ONLY messaging you now because whatever he had going on with the new girl didn’t work out. You’re his backup plan, not his number one. He made that crystal clear when he stomped on your boundaries and continued talking to the person that made you uncomfortable – and then slept with them the first chance he had!
He doesn’t love you, OP. He doesn’t regret a fucking thing, and he’s only saying he does to manipulate you to take him back. Please love yourself more than that and get rid of him for good.