My husband of 30+ years does not remember the first time we had sex

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1. It could just be that he doesn’t remember because it was……..30 years ago.

2. I’m very forgetful. Wife and I have been together for over 12 years and I’m in my 40s I couldn’t tell you our first time either.

3. Some people just can’t remember things as well as others.

4. I’ve been with my husband 15 years, and could not even tell you where it occurred even.

5. Married 30 years. Wife and I had sex on our first date. I remember everything.

6. I can’t remember the first time and I’m 38, been together 17 yrs

7. Most of us forget what we had for breakfast by 5PM.

8. I remember our first time like it was yesterday. It was magical and I felt like I was in a dream.

9. I met my husband in 1992 and I can’t remember anything about our first time 🤷‍♀️ I do remember our first kiss, a couple weeks after we met, but even trying to remember I can’t recall the first time we had sex.

10. Been married 23; I can recall all about the first kiss but details of the rest are a blur lol! So I guess I can’t really expect him to be able to retell the story since I myself can’t either.

11. I don’t remember every little detail, but I definitely remember the night, where we were and how amazing it was. Hmmmm… come to think of it, I wonder if my wife remembers?Gonna ask.

12. Uh, I can’t remember ours either. I assume it was fine?

13. My husband and I have been together 30 years and we remember our first time.

14. 30 years ago! If my wife asked me about our first time, which would have been 10 years ago, I wouldn’t be able to answer it. You set some wild expectations.

15. I’ve been with my now husband for three years and I read this to him. We were each other’s firsts and only’s, and neither of us can remember any specific details… other than that it was 7-8 months ago, a few weeks (months?) before our wedding LOL We both remember first kiss, but not much else! It’s gotten a million times better with *practice*, *wink wink*, that first time was a little underwhelming compared to now!

16. I know it happened the night of our wedding. I could not get any more detailed, if I tried. I do know the first few times were not really satisfying. It hot much better.

17. I’m a 47 year old wife, married 18 years and don’t remember when, where or how and highly doubt my husband would either. I can barely remember what happened last week let alone details from nearly 2 decades ago.

18. 40 yrs for me and I remember it well, it was the night I lost my virginity and I’m still with the same woman. She’s my one and only.

19. I’ve been with mine for a decade and not only do I not remember our first time, I definitely don’t expect him to, either. I don’t think I’d even want to.. it was probably as awkward as it typically is your first time with… anyone.

    What’s important to me, personally, is that I still get to have sex with him.

20. My wife and I are mid-30s, early 40s. We’ve been together about 12 years total, married almost 10.

    We had a conversation last summer that neither one of us remembers the first time we had sex.

21. I have been married for 25 years, together 26 and I remember every single detail of our first sex.

22. I have been with the same woman for 33 years. We gave each other our virginities. She definitely remembers the experience much more vividly than I. I remember where it was and general impressions only. I remember it was a little painful for her.

23. I’ve only been with my husband for 6-ish years and I only kind of remember our first time. Like I remember what month it was and the context of when it happens (mostly because it was in conjunction with our first weekend trip together), but I don’t remember any of the details about it. And it’s not even like at the time I thought he was just some guy; I did already genuinely like him more than anyone else I’d been with. I just don’t remember that much about it. I don’t think remembering every detail is a woman thing, because I’m a woman and I don’t remember details. I think it’s just how your brain works and his works differently. I wouldn’t read too much into him not remembering that much of it after 30-ish years.

24. My wife and I have been together for over 35 years. I still remember the first time like it was yesterday.

25. Been together 20 years. My husband remembers but I do not.

26. Jeez, if we hadn’t discussed it a few times, I’m not sure I’d remember the first time my husband of *a month* and I had sex.

27. The FIRST time we had sex? 9/15/71 The LAST time we had sex? Lessee.… July ‘22? October?? Why not make sure that every time you make love is more memorable than the time before?