I am 21F and I am choosing between 19f & 24f. I am in the military and I ended up meeting 19f on tinder. I really liked her and wanted to be with her really early on but she didn’t want a relationship initially. We eventually got together but after about 3 weeks of being together she got really distant and told me she wanted to break up because she wasn’t doing well mentally. I met 24f at the beginning of mine and 19f relationship and thought she was cute but didn’t pursue it because of 19f. But when me and 19f about a week later I decided to pursue 24f. I didn’t think I really had a chance with 24f and I didn’t think me and 19f would get back together.
Me and 19f got back together after about 2 weeks but it wasn’t really a conversation it was just like okay we are back together and I didn’t really have much of a say in it. I was still talking to 24f while we were back together because I just didn’t know what to do. 24f is also military and ended up PCS’ing 1,000+ miles away.
I’m really not sure what to do. I really like both of these women and can see myself with both. I don’t want to keep talking to both of them because it is wrong but I don’t want to make the wrong decision and regret picking one over the other. Please help me