Hello r/dating_advice! Hope you guys had a great New Year.
Throwaway account here as I have some friends on my main and I’m a little embarrassed for them to see this 🙂
I’m (26M) recently divorced from a nearly 4 year marriage. We’ve been separated for 4 months now. Currently living on my own for the first time since I’ve moved out of my parents and I have to say I’m loving only being responsible for myself.
BUT I do miss having someone to share literally EVERYTHING with, if that makes sense. I have great friends, but at times I feel like I’m bothering them when I tell them every little thing, especially my best friend lol. And obviously missing the intimacy part, but I’ve been without a good romantic life long before we actually decided to split.
I haven’t really put myself out there yet 100%, but I have asked out 2 girls in this time. Both didn’t really workout, which is fine, but I wonder. Should I really be trying this right now? Would I be better off just enjoying time to myself for now? As I said, this is the first time I’ve been on my own EVER and I gotta be honest, I kinda like it. But I also get lonely at times.
If there is anyone who has been in a similar situation, and has some advice that really helped them, that would be appreciated!
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Take time for yourself, until you meet someone interesting.