All the people I’m attracted to are always already in relationships.

23 comments

1. Same with me 🙁

2. How’re you finding so many of them? Online?

3. This has happened to me many times and it sucks.

4. bide your time,

   dating often collapses, by the 2nd or 3rd date,

   at which point they’re looking for others to date

5. Just because there’s a goalie doesn’t mean you can’t score

6. If they have a boyfriend it changed the situation from a 1v100 to a 1v1

7. I mean, that’s common. The people you want are also wanted and liked by other people who already got there first.

8. Don’t worry, I’m always getting broken women

9. It’s because people who are in relationships tend to have a certain calm energy about them because they’re not desperate to please others or come off as attractive to others.

10. As a woman, can relate. I also try to meet men mostly offline (bad experiences with OLD) and also have had this happen to me. It’s the abundant, happy and content energy they exude, I think.

11. Maybe subconsciously you are attracted to people who are unavailable. I struggle with the samez

12. Your not in love with the people but with the idea of how it wouldbe being with that person you are “in love with”

13. Same for me, every guy I find attractive he is even married.

14. Same. At this point I’ll just assume people I’m attracted to are already in a relationship until I find proof they’re single.

15. What was your relation with your mother? Was she distant and you were looking for her to love you?

16. Well ain’t this quite the reality…

17. Most times it’s just a lie, a friend tried to set me with a lady and she told me she had a bf. Most people I have chemistry with are already married or engaged, just keep it moving.

18. Dating is a market and attractive, desirable people don’t stay on the market long. Welcome to life.

19. Better than my situation, where most women think I’m married or in a relationship, get cozy or flirty — then when they find out I’m actually single, pull away. Lmao

20. Something about the unattainable is hot

21. This is the exact same reason why when you’re in a relationship it is 100000% easier to attract women.

    I swear the moment I make it official with a girl 15 others come out of the woodwork and want to date.

22. People who are a good catch have usually already been caught

23. Story of my life right here