So as said in a title me (20) and my gf ( 20)( both virgin) are having some trouble with penetration. Every time I try to finger her, her vagina is so tight i can put 1 finger and when I try to add more it only makes her feel pain. We tried to have penetrative sex couple of times but every time I couldn’t put it inside. We tried lube, different positions and long foreplay but nothing helps. She also says that she’s trying to relax. Any ideas how we can fix it?
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Have you gotten her to come before attempting penetration? She may be trying to relax, but it can be hard, especially when you’re nervous about feeling pain. Getting her to orgasm may be the most helpful way for her to relax. I’d also suggest just trying 2 fingers after an orgasm and seeing how that goes before trying penetrative sex.