I cannot understand allusions in people’s conversations. And I also say something that end up a conversation and maybe make people feel uncomfortable. My mom kinda have no experiences and she could not teach me anything like what to say or how to behave when I asked her. It take me a long time to understand what I’ve done was wrong. I want to change myself as quick as possible in order to keep the relationships.
I also do not have much interests and it do not match with people around me
Btw I am a high school student.
Could you guys tell me some guides in behavior and communication skill?
Sorry for my bad English
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Your English is fine!
It’s hard to improve quickly, especially with social skills. It takes practice. Apologizing for things that make others uncomfortable can help, without getting too upset and dragging yourself down. It’s okay to mess up while you’re learning, it helps you practice. Be honest with your friends and learn to recognize when you’ve made mistakes. They’ll make mistakes too, you’re all still young. It can help everyone to have open communication with each other (that can be very hard at any age, so don’t worry if it starts out rough).
When finding interests, that can depend more on you at first. Everyone is still learning how to be a person in high school. Listen to what others are interested in and explore things that grab your attention. Don’t pretend to enjoy something just to be liked by people. It’s good to learn about others, but also focus on building up yourself and find what you like. Don’t be afraid to try new things 🙂
Growth takes time. You may still be practicing long after school, but working on being aware of yourself and others is a great way to get started. Be patient with yourself, improvement is hard to notice sometimes