Hi, just wanted to ask here how to shake off that nervousness before having sex with a girl I met couple months ago. I’m 18 and still virgin and the other night I was about to have sex with the girl, but couldn’t get my D hard. Any tips on how not to stress? Thanks.

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  1. I know it’s not helpful, but yeah you just gotta get out of your head. If it’s not hard, kiss her caress her give her pleasure till you get hard. I’ve been in your shoes and that is how I got hard. You gotta enjoy yourself and her. If she is sound, she won’t shame you for it. Try to enjoy what’s happening instead of what’s not happening if that makes any sense.

  2. I’ll sometimes consciously remind myself, “This is literally the most natural, instinctual thing in the world. Our bodies and minds are made for this. I got this.” Then dive in and let nature take its course.

  3. Focus on foreplay for her… finger her, eat her pussy, focus on her getting off… it’ll take the pressure off your Willy.

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