How might a woman orgasm during sex with a man, other than oral?

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1. My wife will rub her clit during sex, sure, and will sometimes use a vibrator. I’m happy to rub it, but typically, I can make her feel good but not get her off while rubbing her during sex, so she will take over at some point.

   Finger play, toys are both good options for female orgasms.

   My wife will sometimes have orgasms from PIV alone, but she needs to be super turned on, and it’s usually a position that gives her g spot stim.

2. I can using a vibrator while having anal sex, but I guess is not for everyone.

3. A lot of girls I’ve been with didn’t know that when being on top you should grind back/forward instead of the up/down that you see in porn. This way you are in direct control and the dick is grinding against your g spot. Some girls have achieved the elusive piv orgasm with me this way. That being said, everyone is different and the fun is in pressing all the buttons and seeing what works. Good luck!

4. Fingering when done well can be amazing.

5. There are some positions you can try where during piv you get clitoral stimulation. If you’re doing missionary, your partner can try to roll his hips rather than just thrust in and out so that his pubic mound (the sort of bump on your stomach right above everyone’s bits) grinds against yours on each stroke, which can stimulate the clit.

   Another option is the ‘go long’ method. Clitoral tissue [actually extends deep into the vagina](https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/5c28ff4d297114a6e7ac1199/1546218255545-X5Z0XQO5B9SDUXVKNO7I/800px-Clitoris_Anatomy.svg.png); this is sometimes thought of as the g-spot, so ou can have an orgasm without direct external clitoral stimulation, it’s just harder, like guys having prostate orgasms. The clitoris is analogous to the head of the penis, its loaded with nerves and its the quick way to get your pleasure building. So, instead, if your partner has enough stamina, enough thrusting over a long period of time can eventually get you there by stimulating the internal clitoral tissue, and it might be a deeper more satisfying orgasm as a result of the long slow build up.

6. Not a woman, but a trans man, so same anatomy.
   Oral, fingers, rubbing the clitoris along the penis, rubbing the clitoris on the leg of the partner, sometimes a orgasm from penetration. Sometimes there are toys involved.

7. Usually for me and my gf, we will kiss and use our hands she will stroke my cock and I will flick her bean, she cums, then we have sex and she’ll cum with piv, usually her orgasm will cause me to orgasm. Sometimes I’ll get her to cum twice from piv, sometimes instead of hands we give oral to each other (rarely do either one of us orgasm from oral).

8. I cum from piv (actually the most out of all methods) without rubbing my clit and getting fingered apart from oral. But every woman is different, I don’t squirt from PIV, but I do from fingering for example same goes for orgasming, some can not cum from PIV, or maybe your partner has to step up his game, which is very likely if he is inexperienced like you (or even if he thinks he is experienced)

9. I’ve never cum from oral, always from rubbing my clit during sex

10. I sometimes rub my clit, but more often use a vibrator or other toy, like the Wevibe Melt or Satisfyer pro 2. For me it’s partly a pain thing, I have joint problems so a toy is pretty standard. I can either rub myself and maybe come once if I’m lucky and don’t end up in pain before getting off, or I can use a toy and get at least 1 orgasm every time, but usually between 2-5, depending on how greedy I feel at the time and how long my partner takes to pop. And in some positions like spooning or prone bone, I can just sort of pop the toy in place and leave it there and have my hands free for other things.

11. Suck her nipple and drop a hand down to her clit after a while. Don’t rush to the clit.