As a lot of teenagers the pandemic took my years of development socially all away
And i never kept in contact with friends so i never learnt anything
So what im asking her is that people answer these questions if possible
When are you oversharing
How do you make a convo interesting without oversharing
What are some basic boundries
What are some basic conversation starters
When do you know you’re hurting someone
How do you make friends
How do you become less of a people pleaser
How do become less emotionally attached to someone
How do you properly talk to adults
What are some things you should never share
How do you grow mentally
When does someone overstep your boundaries
How do you get over a bad past
And i think thats allAs a lot of teenager the pandemic took my years of development socially all away
And i never kept in contact with friends so i never learnt anything
So what im asking her is that people answer these questions if possible
When are you oversharing
How do you make a convo interesting without oversharing
What are some basic boundries
What are some basic conversation starters
When do you know you’re hurting someone
How do you make friends
How do you become less of a people pleaser
How do become less emotionally attached to someone
How do you properly talk to adults
What are some things you should never share
How do you grow mentally
When does someone overstep your boundaries
How do you get over a bad past
When do you know you have to stop being friends with someone
What do you do when you feel like you messed up
And i think thats all
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Here is some general advice [https://www.reddit.com/r/socialskills/comments/ttpspy/i_was_never_taught_basic_everyday_skills_by_my/](https://www.reddit.com/r/socialskills/comments/ttpspy/i_was_never_taught_basic_everyday_skills_by_my/)
Read all the tips listed here, especially the ones on genuinely connecting with people, interacting in person, and adding value to people’s lives: https://www.reddit.com/r/socialskills/comments/trlexh/how_to_avoid_being_needy_or_stop_being_needy/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=iossmf
I keep recommending this book because it helped me so much: Conversationally Speaking. Many of your questions in this list pertaining to holding conversations with others are addressed
Don’t think of it like the pandemic took away those years of development. That’s only true for kids under 5-10 who are deprived of all contact, care, and love. What the pandemic did was DELAY certain developments. You are 100% capable of catching up to whatever level you as a person are capable of. On the bright side too, all your peers are in the same boat. Your teachers or parents might be like “wtf is up with kids these days” but a- they’ve always said this and b- they’re not your peers. By the time you’re looking into serious jobs, you’ll (as a micro generation) be indistinguishable from people a few years older and younger. If you take steps now to improve and grow. Check out the books mentioned in other comments 😀