In short, I’m just really bad at riding my boyfriend. We have tried a couple times and prior to each other, were both virgins. I think I just don’t know how to go up and down at the right angle. I’m not obese but just definitely bigger than all the skinny pornstars on the hub… it makes me wonder if this has anything to do with it? Whenever I try to go up, his dick just slips out of me…it’s not small or anything so it isn’t anything to do with him.
It honestly makes me feel awful because I know he’s into being ridden but I just can’t fucking do it when I try. Any advice?
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Practice. Patience.
Try hovering above him and have him still do the work by humping upward into you… if that makes sense.
There are three motions that you can perform when riding your man and having sex on top.
1) Forwards & Backwards
If you enjoy clitoral stimulation during sex, then you will like this motion. Start by sitting right down into your man’s lap and take him fully into you. Then simply rock forwards and backwards on top of him, rubbing your clitoris of his stomach.
2) Up & Down
Moving upwards and downwards requires a little more effort. You are going to use your legs to ‘bounce’ on your man’s lap allowing his penis to glide in deep and then out again.
You’ll find that this position requires a lot more effort than simply moving backwards and forwards.
3) Around & Around
This last movement is similar to the first, Forwards & Backwards. You are going to take your man deep into you, but instead of moving backwards and forwards on him, you are going to be making a circular motion instead.
Now these three movements are a starting point for riding a guy while on top, but to truly enjoy yourself then [you’re going to need to do a bit of experimentation](https://366moves.wordpress.com/2022/09/30/starfish/) to see what you like and enjoy the most.
Now!!!
[Truly riding your man](https://366moves.wordpress.com/2022/09/30/tease/) burns lots of calories. While that might sound exciting, it’s not while you’re at it. If you go too fast from the start and don’t take breaks, you might get tired too soon. That’s why you should use your energy wisely. In this regard, if you have a hard time keeping up momentum, try taking your lovemaking to the couch.
Have your lover sit on the couch, then sit on back while keeping your feet firmly planted on the floor. You’ll find this is probably way more comfortable than squatting over your lover in bed.