We’ve been dating for about 7 months, yet she’s been acting very strange these last 2. I had noticed she’d been turning her location off (ik isn’t a good idea to have but she was the one who enforced it). She’s been extremely over protective of her phone (screen face down, freaked out once when I tried to pick her phone up from a call and snatched it off me, hides phone screen away from me). We had a dead bedroom for almost 2 of our most recent months yet when we finally did it again she wanted it raw (tells me she isn’t on birth control and ik, isn’t very smart thing to do)
Now to mention, she does have depression + anxiety and I was her first time which can explain the dead bedroom. I asked her about her location and if she didn’t want to share it anymore and she didn’t really give a valid response, just said she wouldn’t do it again and that she still wanted to share our locations. Our relationship together is going fine and we barely argue about anything. I know and I hope that I might just be overthinking here, but just to be sure I would like some opinions and whether I should take further action or not..
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Her behaviour is a red flag. It is suspicious and textbook behaviour for someone who is cheating (emotionally or physically). Turning off location, protective of her phone, dead bedroom are all bad signs. I guess you know the relationship is now on very shaky grounds. Don’t do it raw again as you really do not want to catch an incurable STD.
Ok. We all know what’s happening. My advice? You don’t need proof. You can just leave.
Dead bedroom for almost 2months and hiding the phone not good signs. Like to give the benefit of the doubt but I don’t have a good feeling