What are some ways you differentiate being friendly from being flirty?

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1. When she’s flirting she’ll do or say unnecessary stuff to get a response from you.

2. If I send something with the same level of subtlety back, and she responds with something more aggressive.

3. How attractive are you?

4. I just assume that everyone are friendly.

5. Ask them or assume they’re being friendly. Any other way you just come off as a creep.

6. That’s the fun part: you can’t

7. It’s the same thing

8. When I question if they are flirting is when they are (based on how people react to said story).

   Some examples:

   1. Sitting next to table full of girls. Eventually ice is broken between me and the girls. One in particular starts talking to me while the others talk among themselves. Me and the girl talk to each other for a while. Eventually she tells me I’m attractive various times and asks for my instagram (didn’t have one and she found that attractive). I questioned whether she was into me, but everyone I tell this story say she was. There was also a certain way she was looking at me too.

   2. This one I don’t know for sure, but I felt like she was. We’ve known each other for a while. I go talk to her and she touches me and says I feel soft. We talk for a while while sitting next to each other. At one point she mentions that I’m attractive and later says be up to watch a show with me.

   Anytime I question if they are, they probably were.

9. i always assume everything is friendly until she’s hinting on something sexual that’s involving me (conversation/action) then it becomes flirty.

   -talking about her sex life with another guy is not flirty.

10. I’m not sure there is a difference. Trying to make a difference when there is no difference.

11. You can’t.

12. Persistent physical contact is usually a give away.

13. Wasn’t this question already posted today or yesterday?