At what age did your libido hit its absolute peak?

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1. It’s still going up.

2. I guess around 14. It was crazy and horribly distracting.

3. 12-16 years old was nightmarishly bad for me. Curious if it’s typical to occur at such a young age. Still strong now, but totally manageable.

4. Around 20 when I was in campus

5. 19. Stayed pretty close to that level for a long time

6. 27 now, 10 years with my first bf both our libidos are still rising

7. I’m 25 and it feels higher now than ever!

8. Probably early/mid 20s. Was a whore from 16 on, didn’t stop til I tied down with my ex wife at 22 Even then her and I had crazy amazing sex damn near everyday of 3 years together, but when that all exploded I realized just how overrated sex can be compared to a lot of.other factors you may want to look for in a partner.

   You can make your sex better or worse with anybody with some time and practice, communication; can’t force compatibility or fix crazy in the long term though.

   I think 22 was probably peak libido. 24/25 was a dawning realization that I *enjoy* sex, but have no particular need or uncontrolled urge for it. Mid/Late 30s now.

9. Oh god, right around 24 I was a total fuck-machine. The combination of open schedule, low-income work, sobriety, and a social circle of very promiscuous folks

10. Sixty Nine

11. This video explains it perfectly:

    https://youtu.be/rqgsD-IhFtw

    If you truely want to call it “one peak”, it’s around the age of 18 to 20 … but it stays fairly strong until the moment just before you die

12. Before I had sex, for sure

13. 18-21

14. Like 14 when I’d get a boner just from a car being on a bumpy road or just a woman being near me

15. To be honest it never really changed.

    I’m almost 50 and still have a insanely high libido.

16. 25 or so, oddly. Only period of my life where I actually had to go to the men’s room and rub one out while at work to get shit done. Ceased at about….28, 29?

17. At 40, it feels like it’s as high as it’s ever been.

18. Around 16 it was insane

19. It’s been the same since I was 13.

20. Mid-Late 30s.

21. I reckon 32, it’s taken a bit of a nosedive since then

22. 15-17 definetely

23. I’m 29 and literally worse today than I was when I was in my teens. It’s insane.

    Genuinely have to get off to start my day so I can focus.

24. 25 – I’m in this age and it’s worst right now, especially i’m alone and i don’t have anyone to help me with it

25. In waves 13-15 19-21 and at like 25-27 It was constantly on my mind. But it has diminished drastically in the last year’s.

26. Mine is related to being healthy and in a healthy relationship. Peaked at 18 then again at 27 then again at 35… all the times I was healthiest and with a partner whom built me up, as opposed to the ones who tear you down.

27. 35-45

28. Probably 22. I’m 36 and it hasn’t slowed down

29. Around 16-17, first sudden drop was at 30 and it’s been slow downhill since then (45 now). I’m happy about it, my soul is freed from the horniness of the meat body.

30. Depends on my partner at the time actually. I’m 55 now and my GF has my drive as high as it’s ever been (not counting teen years when a stiff wind could do it). But in my prior marriages it was (of necessity) a LOT lower. I all but lost interest entirely in my second marriage.