I went over to this guy’s house whom I talked to online for a few months. As soon as I got into his house he led me to the couch. He took my jacket off for me by sliding it down. He said “wow you’re absolutely adorable” and started kissing me. I kissed him back at first. I moved so I could lay on the couch and he got on top of me and we kissed more. Then he started trying to put his hand down my pants and sucking my neck. I got out from under him and told him I didn’t want that. He was like “why is that?” I told him I’m a virgin (which is a lie) and that I wasn’t ready. He was like “oh ok.” I could tell he was annoyed or maybe hurt. As fucked up as it was going I still really wanted to spend time with him. I told him there are other things we can do and I gave him a blowjob. I have texted him a couple times and he hasn’t replied at all.
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Yes, to be honest he probably wanted sex and was intimidated by the fact you said you were a virgin.
Yea he just wanted to hit. Move on from him. Lowkey sounds like he forced himself on you.
lol yep. going to somebody’s house for the first date is kind of a known sign that you are going to fuck. i get that you probably didnt know that but i would advise meeting in public if you dont want sex right away.
You gave him a blow job and he isn’t responding. Sounds like an a-hole.
Sounds like a complete ass, who is just trying to use you. Just block and move on from him.
Clearly only want sex. Ima tell you something sis, DO NOT MEET A MAN YOU MET ONLINE AT HIS HOUSE FOR THE FIRST TIME.
He was only interested in getting your triangle. Move on he’s a creep. Oh and stop giving away free BJs
For crying out loud…..
Uggh. I’m very sex positive and if you want tobgive a blow job in the first 5 minutes, good for you. But it sounds like you were pressured. That isn’t cool.
You can do better than this guy
Don’t go to guys’ houses for the first time if you don’t want to have sex. Majority of the time it’s about sex
It probably wouldn’t have made a difference if you had sex.
He most likely would have still ignored your texts.
A lot of guys would have been happy to get a BJ on a first date!
Best wishes!
Others have said it already, but yes this was all about sex. When he saw you werent as DTF as he thought he took what he could get (in this case a BJ).
The only way this man will ever text back is if you are able to convince homthat you do want tk have sex the next time yall meet. Even then, he wont text you after that.
Forget about this man, and move kn. He literally laid you on the couch and tried to have sex. That wasnt a date it was a booty call in his mind. This was all about sex for him nothing else nothing less.
I’m 37, and maybe it’s my big age, but I don’t grasp the idea of meeting people at their houses for the first time. Grab a drink, go on a coffee date, go to the museum, something. Someone who wants to meet you besides just for sex will have no problem meeting you in a public place.
Where I live, I just saw on the news that someone kept a date in their house captive for 5 days. It’s scary out there.
Stay safe!
Why did you even give him a blowjob 🙁
You knew you didn’t feel comfortable with him sexually. You ow this guy nothing.
He doesn’t seem interested in you. Read about love bombing = lots of attention etc till they get sex.
Yes he wanted sex. And you stupidly sucked his dick…
Do not go to men’s houses unless you want to have sex. Just don’t do it. It gets uncomfortable really quickly. Most men who invite you to their house just want to fuck. That’s it.
He talked to you for months and one time he wanted sex you make it like he just wanted sex. It’s weird to me.