So I used to always love having my nipples played with and my breasts touched. I had a son and breastfed him almost a year, now I can’t stand having them touched by someone else. I hate it cause my hubby loves touching them and stuff but it makes me cringe. I don’t know how to go back to thinking of them as sexual now.
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Lol talk about it with yur hubby
Start playing then yourselves
Talk to your husband and tell him the truth. It will probably just take time for you to get back to your boobs being, to you, toys that you like to be played with during sex instead of instruments for feeding your baby. that is all.
Are you done breastfeeding? I have found with both my kids that I couldn’t deal with nipple play while still breastfeeding, it didn’t feel good physically and grossed me out psychologically. What did help was wearing a bra or bralette or even a lacy camisole during sex so my breasts still felt sexy and the sensation of they being touched or even sucked on was dampened enough to be able to stand it. Eventually they went totally back to normal after I was done breastfeeding.