When we have sex my spouse and I will sometimes take “breaks” from thrusting and rubbing to just make out while the erection is inside. We’ll sometimes smile at each other and say “squeeze!” then squeeze our pelvic floor muscles together which is a pleasant way to edge a bit and delay orgasm. We can squeeze one another maybe once or twice a second. With practice i haven’t really been able to get much faster than that. I’m wondering if it’s possible to perform these contractions any more rapidly, or is this just how the human body works?
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Have you tried to do it using just a small portion of your strength each time? It’s a lot easier to do rapid quarter strength squeezes or even less if possible for more speed. It’s important to have a lot of pelvic floor strength, so that the lighter squeezes have a stronger impact. Controlled breathing is important while doing this too. While there is certainly a limit everyone reaches, it can be developed into a rapid pulsing almost like a vibration feeling for both partners.