I (25 M) recently started a relationship with a gorgeous girl (24 F) and we have an amazing connection on and off bed. The only thing is I am not able to make her have an orgasm, she only has it when she rides me, which is nice, but I wish to make her have more in different ways because giving pleasure is something that I love. Besides the communication side which is also important, how could I improve as a lover? Become better at oral, at touching her, during sex, any advice is helpful. Thanks a lot!
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Ask her 🤷🤷
Communication helps a lot. Sometimes we just need it a little bit more to the left, slightly more pressure or anything else to push us over the edge.
If she doesn’t like verbal communication you can try holding hands while doing stuff like oral. Tell her to squeeze your hand if something feels nice and to release it if it’s only “meh”.
If there is something she likes, keep doing it in the same rythem and style. Don’t change stuff up like going faster when she starts moaning since that can ruin the fun.
There’s an awesome book called Bliss Club by June Pla, you can get it at the library, it has some great tips and tricks to help pleasure your partner.