I’m talking about the kind of social life that can be used for strategies like Denmo’s video here. I could have friends, but not in a way that matters in this context.
I don’t drink, smoke or any kind of drug and I dislike mainstream music, which makes it hard to blend in and enjoy those environments.
All the places where people share my interests are so far away. Here, it’s mostly just bars and shops.
40 mins away (but my job is half way there), there is a climbing gym that I like to visit sometimes, but not too often because of the distance the money. If I went there more often, I could make some friends, would that help when it’s 40 mins home? I feel like a girl I meet there will never tolerate the distance.
The metal people are even further away and I would never be able to meet them concistently or bring them home.
All my bandmates live 30 to 90 mins from me.
Then I have my bro, cousin and 1 or 2 friends that I never meet who live in my city.
I have quit gaming but I still have a place in my heart for it in case that helps.
Some people would suggest getting hooked on a new activity. (I would have to sacrifice something to get time for that but I’m open).
All the jam places and concert venues have sold out and been replaced here.
These factors in mind, what would be a best shot? Is there anything I can do to make it work despite the distance or do I have to either move or bond with the local people who I can’t relate to and who think I’m weird?And of course I don’t want to use people to get girls, but when I make this change, I want to make it as good as I can. I know it’s a lot of time and work until I can have this, but I want to do it.