I feel like I’m being cut off

I’m a 26M, I met this 24F like a month and a half ago, we have made many things together and seen each other almost every weekend. At first we just went hiking a couple of times, but we didn’t talk that much.

One day she said that we could visit my city and I could show her around. She came but she said she was tired and she’d rather whatch a movie at home. I kissed her while we were at it but I felt it was a bit weird, so I asked her and she said that she is heartbroken right now (she moved from another country 2 months ago and just broke with his boyfriend before coming). Anyway, we talked about it, we were both cool with it, she asked me to not get upset and if I still wanted to hang out with her. So we watched the movie, then talked for a long time and I think we both had a great day.

After that we started talking a lot more, she would tell me how her day went, asked about mine, send me selfies in the gym, food or any dayly activities.

Last week she came to my city again, we did some hiking, then had lunch and went for a long walk & talk. Quite romantic tbh but I didn’t try anything because I want to give her some space.

After that, this past week I’ve felt like she has been getting colder. She added me to close friends in insta like 2 weeks ago, where she posts personal stuff and I’ve asked her is she was okay many times, maybe too many. A couple of times she answered like the next day saying she was feeling better but thanks for asking, the rest she didn’t even answer or she said she didn’t wanna tell me about it. On saturday she posted something that made me think she was upset so I asked her again. She took 48h to answer and she deleted me from close friends (I feel like a stalker but yeah, I checked the stories in her profile to make sure). So yesterday she sent me a really long voice note telling me about her weekend (we both have been out), asking me about mine and saying that she has felt overwhelmed by social media and she deleted instagram. She also said that she saw about my trip in tiktok (but she liked my post in instagram, not tiktok, stalker again… and she also saw a story I uploaded yesterday). I think she really deleted the app, probably yesterday before she send me the voice note. But why would she lie about where she saw my video? I thought she trusted me, but I see that I blew that up or maybe she never did.

I am not upset nor angry, but all I wanted was to check if she was alright and I didn’t want to ask because I felt like I had bothered her enough (for deleting me from close friends in insta). But now she answers 2 days later like nothing happened. Idk, the change in behaviour has been so sudden, but I will try to see her this week to talk about how I feel, I think it’s not healthy for me. I like her a lot and I thought she also liked me, but now I don’t know what to think.

Maybe I’m just overthinking.

Anyway, just wanted to vent. Thank you if you read so far 🙂