Some days ago, I confessed my worries to get to know a seller at the market of my village just here : https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/zz8mgh/how_can_i_22m_approach_a_girl_in_her_workplace/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=android_app&utm_name=androidcss&utm_term=1&utm_content=share_button
First, I was really confused with the comments saying that what she did and may appear of herself was purely marketing and those kind of stuff (things that I can understand guys). But I maintained my point of view but saying it was more than a seller’s normal behaviour. Then, some comments just adviced my to just take some risks and gamble on this … Gamble that I took !
Secondly, I finally met her after the New Year period (just yesterday) and for that : I just got natural ! I approached her by saying that she was really cute and so, she might contribute well to the economic development of the market (silly things when we think about it but nevermind haha). In brief, we discussed briefly and I decided to make the famous step to go taking a coffe or something and to better know each other… And SHE ACCEPTED! We took a coffee and everything went well, and she confessed that she found me kinda cute and attractive to and … Currently, we are dating each other !
So, in conclusion, if I have to say something: listen to yourself but also listen to the advice that try to be convenient with you and know how to look forward it !
Have a good day girls and guys and thanks for everything!
4 comments
Of course listen to your gut. Why would you listen to a bunch of losers who are terrified of their own shadows and have never approached women?
9/10 someone working a sales position is just being nice to be nice. Here’s the thing, asking someone out isn’t that big a deal. Just do it respectfully and take the no if he or she says no, and move on. Neither party has to make it a big deal and now you don’t spend weeks building it up in your head as some big thing
Lol you are flexing hard on the folks who told you not to take your shot.
You did the right thing. Flirting / asking people out at their workplace is tricky, but if done with respect, it can do no wrong, especially since you’re not her co worker, but a customer, which makes things easier. Especially if she had a great smile, usually that’s a good indicator. As a man who worked in retail with other guys and women, we’re nice to people (at least most of us xD) but we don’t drop our biggest smile when giving directions to the sodas aisle lol.
Congrats boy, time to enjoy now !
Nice to hear back! I was one of the encouragers.