My SO complains that when we do doggystyle there isn’t anything for her to do

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1. Tell her to play with her clit. Should help her orgasm

2. Have you asked her personally if there’s anything you can do to make it more exciting? It’s a wonderful position in my opinion, but I do prefer it if the man doesn’t JUST sit there thrusting, I like more engagement from his side as well. Whether it be caressing my back and sides, grabbing the breasts, spanks, that kind of thing. If you already do these things then I don’t know, maybe it’s just not the position for her and she’s someone that prefers to be the one engaging.

3. Uhh, one of her spare hands should be on your sack. Doggy 101.

4. She could scroll through her phone.
   Have a 3 some and have her doing oral on the other person.
   Tie her wrists either behind her back or out to bedposts, so she can’t do anything, but is also doing that on purpose.
   Get a vibrator for her to use underneath her on her clit or your balls.

5. ….I wonder if there are any other reasons she doesn’t enjoy it? I’m not saying “there’s isn’t anything to do” Is not a valid reason, but I wonder if that’s the only one. It’s obviously a less intimate position to be in, so maybe that’s it. But I wonder if you talked about it a little more if something else would be uncovered. Just a thought.

6. Add another person to your play

7. Have you tried giving her a Rubiks cube? Maybe a word search??? Idk

8. Use a mirror in front of her

9. She needs some toys maybe? I always use a small vibrating toy when my husband is in back. Keeps me wet so it doesn’t hurt when it likes to hit it hard.

10. Have her bark…. duh. Just kidding.

    Seriously though if we aren’t going hard yet have her reach back and fondle the balls. If you are tell her just to focus on her back arch and winking at you with her brown eye.

11. Listen here: MIRROR

12. Maybe add another woman and lay her in front of her so she can keep her hands and mouth busy?…🤔

13. Makes me wonder what she does during missionary.

14. Ummm. There are things to do. Doggie is a bit challenging for us. She doesn’t like her cervix getting hit like a puching bag…so i have to be mad conscious on how deep i will go.

    She knows this and will stroke and caress what’s not inside of her…the random run of her nails down my thighs…it’s really all the small stuff she does makes it sexy as hell

15. You can hold still at times and ask her to move on you, so she can have time to engage as well, then you can take a turn going at her. That’s a good way to switch up the pace now and then too 🙂

16. That’s so interesting to me. As a woman, doggy style is my favorite. But a lot of times I lay my shoulder and face on the bed and reach between my legs to do different things. I can play with and touch him while he’s thrusting, I can run my nails along the insides of his thighs kind of rough, I can touch myself while he’s thrusting, idk. I can think of so many things.

    I hated typing this tho 😂

17. Maybe try toys !

18. So i guess you just have to diversify in terms of styles that would probably involves her

19. Stand against a wall and she can be in control, like backward fucking you for a bit. Or grab her hands and hold them behind her back. Pull hair naughty but nice. All fun things to do.

20. She can play with herself…..

21. Give her snacks, wordle, soduku, crosswords, word search. Hell, she can learn to knit or something.

22. Get a big mirror?

23. She doesn’t or can’t push/fuck back? I saw you mention something about her not having core strength but I use my legs and my grip on the sheets for leverage.

24. Having a partner use a vibrator on themselves is definitely a good time. I’ve done stand-up doggy in front of floor length mirrors too (which has been very popular with my partners)

25. I often do an altered doggy where I am with my upper body flat on the bed but on my knees with my ass up. And usually when the stretch gets too much on my lower back I also lower my legs so I am just laying on a pillow under hips. This allows me to hold the position longer because I have the armstrenght of a noodle, but more importantly it allows for the freedom of my hands. So I can hold hands with my SO. Without it I would also feel detached but with handholding it becomes a nice position.

26. Play with herself and or your balls. It’s the best either way!

27. Does she have short arms? She could reach back and play with herself or you or both.

28. Put a slice of pizza on the bed in front of her while you’re doin work

29. There’s a whole bunch of funtime bits within easy reach right between her legs… not sure what exactly she’s looking to do. I guess the Rubik’s Cube comment could be as close to the mark as mine?

30. Tell her to reach under and play with your balls! Slap her own ass! Spread her ass cheeks! Talk dirt to you! She and you have to get imaginative with it.

31. In my experience in doggy style its alot about the dom and sub aspect of it, so play it up a little, pull her arms back so she CANT do anything, pull her hair a reasonable amount or if you can reach, lean forward and put your hands or the crook of your elbow round her neck. Or get her to play with her clit. Ask her to spread herself for you before you tease her with your dick.

32. Dirty talk !!

33. She could give you a break and do some of the work. Women can work from doggystyle too, some don’t realise it.