I told my boyfriend the truth right away (because he told me no lies should be between us because we are friends and i will never leave u even if u cheat on me) and I apologized and he said I forgive u but I have to punish you by not letting ne buy a dildo ( long distance relationship ) and I said no and he broke up with me and then kept talking to me and asked me to come to his place again and became nostalgic and nice.
I did and the 2 first days were nice.
Then he started belittling me and treating me badly and even told me I can’t have sex with u anymore and when I did it , I did it because I made effort for you.
During time I was with him ( 2 weeks) i cooked for him cleaned the house contributed financially.
But he said I will never be in a relationship with u and won’t have kids with u.
He left me crying and begging for him to be kind again and give me attention.
TL;DR: he said we can be friends
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Nope. Don’t be friends. You need to move on and you need time to reflect.
He doesn’t want to be in a relationship with you anymore. He might be willing to be friendly fuckbuddies, but at the same time he’s treating you badly in ways that made you cry. He’s got some extremely weird controlling ideas about punishment via financial control, which is straight up abuse if it’s not part of a mutually agreeable kink situation.
What about this sounds like a good, healthy situation for you? Because it sounds terrible to me.
Walk away and find some friends and lovers who actually treat you well.